INTRODUCTION
Allah, in the Name of, Most Beneficent, Most Merciful
In today`s society, the disease of divorce has become so common that
through a minor argument or baseless suspicion, three divorces are
pronounced immediately. Later when the couple realize what they have
done they suffer from untold anxieties and extreme embarrassment.
In order to resume their life as husband and wife they seek the
assistance of the Ulema and lawyers, uttering all kinds of lies and
falsehoods. It is sad that there are some very "enlightened" Ulema
and lawyers who falsely claim that three divorces given at once or
at the same time constitute a single divorce. There are also some
females who maintain that a divorce is not valid when said in anger.
They say that anger in itself is Haraam (unlawful). While there are
some who will believe that until the women does not accept the
divorce, the divorce will not be valid.
With these conflicting thoughts and fancy interpretations concerning
us, we think that it is necessary to put forward a short and
comprehensive discussion on the question of three divorces. We pray
that Muslims in the future will not act in haste and careful
consideration and analysis should be taken before embarking upon the
act of divorce so that they may be saved from untold miseries.
DIVORCE
I have presented this humble effort based on the extensive research,
which is done in "Tafseer Na`eemi" and "Ja`Al-Haq" by Hazrat Mufti
Ahmad Yaar Khan Na`eemi (radi Allahu anhu), but firstly, a synopsis
on divorce. Trusting in Almighty Allah, I have intended to clarify
the question of three divorces by presenting this short treatise.
May Almighty Allah and His Beloved Rasool (sallal laahu alaihi
wasallam) guide us on the Shari`ah and accept this humble effort.
There are situations as a result of circumstances where divorce is
permissible but to resort to divorce without any reason is unlawful
in Islam. Sayyiduna Rasoolullah (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam) said,
"From the things permitted by Almighty Allah, the most disliked is
divorce." (Abu Dawud; ibn Majah; Daar Qutni)
Hazrat Sooban (radi Allahu anhu) reports that the Holy Prophet (sallal
laahu alaihi wasallam) said, "That woman who asks for divorce from
her husband, without any reason, the smell of Paradise is unlawful
to her." (Daarmi Shareef, Vol. 2, pg. 85)In other words, apart from
seeing Paradise, she will not even smell it!
If a person wants to divorce his wife, it is better that he gives
her one divorce while she is in the state of "Tohr" or purification
after menses. If he has to give her three Talaaqs, he should give
her one Talaaq at a time in each Tohr. However, if he gives the
woman Talaaq while she is in the state of menses or if he gives her
three Talaaqs all at once, which woud not be according to the
Shari`ah, the Talaaqs will still be regarded as valid.
There are three methods of giving three Talaaqs at once. These are:-
FIRST: If the husband divorces his legal wife with whom he
has made Nikah, but did not consummate the marriage, that is, he did
not have sexual intercourse with her, but he says to her, "Upon you
is Talaaq, upon you is Talaaq, upon you is Talaaq", in this case,
only ONE Talaaq will be valid. By uttering the first Talaaq, this
woman is out of Nikah and there is no `Iddat upon her. The reason
for this is that for the effectiveness of Talaaq there has to be
Nikah or `Iddat and for that reason the last two Talaaqs will be
null and void. If he says to his wife, "I gave you three Talaaqs",
now all three will be valid because in this case, all three Talaaqs
were given while the husband and wife were in Nikah.
SECOND: If the husband divorces his wife with whom he had
sexual intercourse by saying to her, "I give you Talaaq, Talaaq,
Talaaq", but he only intended emphasis with the last two words, i.e.
"Talaaq, Talaaq", in reality, it will be ONE Talaaq. However, in the
court of law, his testimony regarding emphasis will not be heard.
THIRD: If husband divorces his wife with whom he had sexual
intercourse by saying to her that, "I give you three Talaaqs" or if
he says, "Upon you is Talaaq, upon you is Talaaq, upon you is Talaaq",
in this condition three Talaaqs will be valid. Imam Abu Hanifah,
Imam Shafi`i, Imam Malik, Imam Ahmad (radi Allahu anhum) and the
majority of the Ulama have reached consensus on this matter. Some of
the Ulama who are not influenced by deep Islamic knowledge differ
with this consensus/Mas`ala (decree).
Allamah Sawi (radi Allahu anhu) writes: "The Ulama of the Muslim
Ummah have reached consensus that the one who gives three Talaaqs
separately or all at once, in both cases, his wife will become
Haraam (unlawful) for him". (Tafseer Sawi, under the verse no. 230,
Surah Baqarah)
Imam Nowvi (radi Allahu anhu) writes in his "Nowvi Sharah Muslim",
Vol. 1, under the chapter of three Talaaqs: "Whosoever says to his
wife, `I give you three Talaaqs`, according to the four Imams and
the majority of the present and past Ulama, the three Talaaqs will
be effective. Some of the Ahlus Zaahir (those who are influenced by
external actions) have said that, in this case, only one Talaaq will
be affective".
In their obsession to seek ease for their carnal desires, Ghair
Muqallids (those who do not conform to the teachings of one the Four
Imams) of the present time, regard any false or weak saying as
acceptable to them. In following Ibne Taimiya they have adopted the
belief that three Talaaqs uttered at once are equal to one Talaaq.
Allamah Sawi (radi Allahu anhu) writes: "Ibne Taimiya Hambali has
stated that `three Talaaqs given at once are equal to one`. The
Imams of Hambali Madhab have refuted Ibne Taimiya. The Ulama have
said that Ibne Taimiya is misled and is a misleader. Relationship of
this issue with Imam Ash Hab Maliki is false". (Tafseer Sawi, under
the verse no. 230, Surah Baqarah)
We have learnt from this that the Ghair Muqallids of the present
time have chosen the false belief or false concept in the issue of
Talaaq as long as it suits their carnal desire.
CHAPTER 1 : PROOFS IN SUPPORT OF THREE TALAAQS BEING VALID
NUMBER 1:
Allah Almighty says in the Holy Quran: "This divorce is for two
times only, then is to retain with good or to release with
kindness." (Surah Baqarah: 229) "Then if she is divorced for the
third time, then that woman will not be lawful for him." (Surah
Baqarah: 230)
One comprehends from these verses that the right of the husband in
returning to his wife is till two Talaaqs, and not after three
Talaaqs. The unconditional use of the word "MARRATAAN" in this verse
proves that giving separate Talaaqs is not the condition for the
Talaaq to be valid or affective. If person gives separate Talaaqs or
all at once, Talaaq will be valid and effective whichever way it may
be.
Allama Sawi (radi Allahu anhu) explains these verses in "Tafseer
Sawi": "If someone gives three Talaaqs, it will be effective
regardless if he gives all at once or separately. The woman will not
be lawful for him." Similar explanations of these verses are given
in other commentaries of the Holy Quran as well.
NUMBER 2:
Allah Almighty says: "And whosoever crossed the limits of Allah,
undoubtedly, he did injustice to his own soul. You know not that
perhaps Allah may send any new commandment after it." (Surah Talaaq:
1)
This verse means that whosoever crosses the limits of Almighty
Allah, that is, by giving three Talaaqs at once, he does injustice
to himself. It is often that a person is regretful and embarrassed
after having given Talaaq and wants to return to his wife. It is not
stated in this verse that if someone has given three Talaaqs at once
it would not be affective. Rather, it is stated that the person is
unjust to himself. If the three Talaaqs given were ineffective, then
the woman is still considered to be his wife. How can he then become
a Zaalim or transgressor? Imam Nowi (radi Allahu anhu) gives a
similar explanation in the chapter of Three Talaaqs in "Sharah
Muslim".
NUMBER 3:
Sowaid Ibn Ghaflah narrates in "Baihqi" and in "Tibraani" that Imam
Hasan Ibn Ali (radi Allahu anhum) gave three Talaaqs at once to his
wife Ayesha Khsh`amyah. He was later informed that she cried a lot
in his separation. When he heard this, he also cried and said: "I
would have returned to her if I had not heard from my father that if
a person gives three Talaaqs to his wife separately or all at once,
then that woman is not lawful for him without Halalah". (Sunan Kubra
Lil Baihqi, Vol. 7, pg. 339)
NUMBER 4:
Habib Ibn Abi Sabit (radi Allahu anhu) narrates: "A man came to
Hazrat Ali (radi Allahu anhu) and said, `I have given thousand
Talaaqs to my wife`. Hazrat Ali (radi Allahu anhu) told him, `Three
Talaaqs have made her Haraam upon you. Go and distribute the
remaining Talaaqs amongst your other wives`". (Sunan Kubra Lil
Baihqi, Vol. 7, pg. 335)
This statement of Hazrat Ali (radi Allahu anhu) means that the three
Talaaqs are effective and the rest of the Talaaqs are absurd or
nonsense. It is obvious that this man did not give one thousand
Talaaqs in one thousand months, otherwise he would have spent 83
years and 4 months to do that! He gave one thousand Talaaqs at once
and Hazrat Ali (radi Allahu anhu) issued the verdict that three are
valid.
NUMBER 5:
Hazrat Imam Jafar Sadiq (radi Allahu anhu) narrates from Hazrat Ali
(radi Allahu anhu) that Hazrat Ali (radi Allahu anhu) said:
"Whosoever gives three Talaaqs to his wife at once, his wife will
not be lawful for him without Halalah". (Sunan Kubra Lil Baihqi,
Vol. 7, pg. 335)
NUMBER 6:
Baihqi narrates from Mohammad Ibn Ayaz Ibn Kabeer (radi Allahu anhum),
that a person gave three Talaaqs at once to his wife before he had
intercourse with her. He intended to marry her afterwards. He
approached Hazrat Abu Hurairah and Hazrat Abdullah Ibn Abbas (radi
Allahu anhum) to find a solution. They told him, "We do not see any
possibility for re-marriage without Halalah". The man said, "I have
given three Talaaqs at once". When Hazrat Abdullah (radi Allahu anhu)
heard this, he said: "Whatever was left in your ownership you have
given it away collectively". (Sunan Kubra, Vol. 7, pg. 335)
NUMBER 7:
Somebody asked Hazrat Abdullah Ibn Abbas (radi Allahu anhuma): "I
have given 100 Talaaqs to my wife". He replied, "Take three and
leave ninety-seven". (Three Talaaqs are sufficient to break the
marriage. The rest of the 97 Talaaqs are useless.) (Sunan Kubra,
Vol. 7, pg. 337)
NUMBER 8:
Sa`eed Ibn Jubair (radi Allahu anhu) reports that a man came to
Hazrat Abdullah Ibn Abbas (radi Allahu anhuma) and said, "I have
given a thousand Talaaqs to my wife". He replied, "Take three and
leave 997". (Sunan Kubra, Vol. 7, pg. 337)
NUMBER 9:
Sa`eed Ibn Jubair (radi Allahu anhu) narrates that Hazrat Abdullah
Ibn Abbas (radi Allahu anhuma) told a man who gave three Talaaqs to
his wife, "Your wife has become Haraam upon you". (Sunan Kubra, Vol.
7, pg. 370)
NUMBER 10:
Amar Ibn Dinar (radi Allahu anhu) reports that someone asked Hazrat
Abdullah Ibn Abbas (radi Allahu anhuma): "What is the ruling of that
person who has given his wife Talaaqs equal to (the number of)
stars". He replied, "Tell him that for you (him) the head of Zodiac
of Gemini is enough". Remember, there are three stars on top of
Zodiac of Gemini. (Sunan Kubra, Vol. 7, pg. 327)
NUMBER 11:
Fatma Bint Qais (radi Allahu anha) says, "My husband gave me three
Talaaqs at once before he left for Yemen". The Holy Prophet (sallal
laahu alaihi wasallam) legalised these as three Talaaqs. (Ibn Majah,
Chapter - "Who gave three Talaaqs in one sitting")
NUMBER 12:
Hakim, Ibn Majah and Abu Dawood narrated from Abdullah Ibn Ali Ibn
Yazid Ibn Rukanah (radi Allahu anhum) who said: "My grandfather,
Rukanah, gave Talaaq BATTAH (emphasized Talaaq) to his wife. Then,
he went into the holy court of the beloved Rasool (sallal laahu
alaihi wasallam). The Holy Prophet (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam)
asked him in that regard. Rukanah replied, `I made intention of one
Talaaq`. The Holy Prophet (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam) asked him,
`Do you swear by the Name of Allah that you made intention of one
Talaaq?` Rukanah said, `I swear by the Name of my Lord that I made
intention of one Talaaq only`. The Holy Prophet (sallal laahu alaihi
wasallam) then returned his wife to him". (Ibn Majah - Chapter of
Talaaq Al Battah; Abu Dawood - Chapter of Al Battah)
If three Talaaqs given at once are equal to one Talaaq, why then did
the Holy Prophet (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam) ask Rukanah to swear
for his intention? He in fact told his wife "I give you Talaaq,
Talaaq, Talaaq" and the last two words of Talaaq that he used was to
emphasize the first Talaaq. Therefore, it was regarded as one Talaaq.
This narration is highly accurate and reliable. Ibn Majah said,
"What a noble narration this Hadith is". Abu Dawood said, "This
narration is more accurate than the narration of Ibn Jarih".
NUMBER 13:
In the time of Hazrat Umar (radi Allahu anhu) the law was made that
three Talaaqs given at once will be regarded as three. (Muslim,
Kitaabut Talaaq, Chapter of Three Talaaqs)
Imam Nowvi (radi Allahu anhu) explains this Hadith by saying that
the Sahabah have reached consensus on this issue that three Talaaqs
given at once will be regarded as three.
NUMBER 14:
The husband has the right to divorce. What is the reason for him
giving three Talaaqs and it is counted as one? The husband owns the
Talaaq, and the disposal of an owner should be valid in his
ownership.
NUMBER 15:
The Islamic Law cannot be changed because of an unlawful act. To
give three Talaaqs at once is, undoubtedly, prohibited. But, when
the husband is uttering three Talaaqs from his mouth, why then would
it not be affective?
To slaughter an animal with a stolen knife is indeed Haraam, but if
someone has slaughtered the animal with it, then the slaughtered
animal will be Halaal. It is Haraam to give Talaaq to the wife while
she is in the state of menses, but if someone has given it, it will
be affective.
NUMBER 16:
The majority of the Ulama, in particular, the Four Jurist Imams (radi
Allahu anhum) believed that three Talaaqs given at once are valid
and effective.
CHAPTER 2: ANSWERS TO OBJECTIONS
Ghair Muqqalids, in their attempt to support their false claims
could only make the following objections. Insha-Allah, these false
claims will be erradicated.
FIRST OBJECTION
Allah Almighty says in the Holy Quran: "This divorce is for two
times only." (Surah Baqarah: 229) The Quranic word "MARRATAAN" in
this verse requires that Talaaqs should be given separately. To give
three Talaaqs at once does not fulfill the requirement of this
Quranic verse.
OUR ANSWER:
There are a few answers to this objection:
1. This verse does not mean that three Talaaqs issued at once will
be equal to one Talaaq. The true understanding of this verse is that
Raji` Talaaqs are counted as two Talaaqs. (Raji` Talaaq is that
Talaaq that allows a person to return to his wife after divorcing
her). Thereafter, Almighty Allah says in the very next verse, that
whosoever gives more than two Talaaqs, his wife will not be lawful
for him without Halalah. "Tafseer Ahmadi", "Sawi" and "Jalaalain"
can be seen for reference.
2. For instance, if the word "MARRATAAN" in this verse means that
Talaaqs should be given separately, then the one who says to his
wife that "I give you Talaaq, I give you Talaaq, I give you Talaaq",
there is "wordy" separation in his saying. One who says to his wife
that "I give you three Talaaqs", there is "numeral" separation in
his saying. We fail to understand from where they have taken the
meaning of this verse to be that there must be a period of one
menses between the Talaaqs, then only Talaaq will be valid? Almighty
Allah says in the Holy Quran: "Then look again and again towards the
Heavens." (Surah Mulk: 4) This does not mean that one must look
towards the Heavens once in a month. I suppose Ghair Muqqalids might
translate this verse to mean that one should look towards the skies
once in a month!
3. According to their explanation of this verse they say that
Talaaqs should be given separately. We also say that issuing three
Talaaqs at once is severely prohibited, and that it is necessary to
give Talaaqs separately. The question that arises is this is that if
someone, due to his foolishness, had given three Talaaqs all at
once, will the Talaaqs be effective or not? The verse is quite about
it.
SECOND OBJECTION
It is reported from Hazrat Abdullah Ibn Abbas (radi Allahu anhuma)
that during the time of the Holy Prophet (sallal laahu alaihi
wasallam), in the time of Hazrat Abu Bakr Siddique (radi Allahu anhu)
and in the early period of Hazrat Umar (radi Allahu anhu), three
Talaaqs given at once were regarded as one Talaaq. (Reference:
Muslim - Kitabut Talaaq).
Furthermore it is reported in "Muslim", in the same Chapter, that
Abu Sahba asked Hazrat Abdullah Ibn Abbas (radi Allahu anhum): "Do
you know that in the period of the Holy Prophet (sallal laahu alaihi
wasallam) and in the period of Abu Bakr (radi Allahu anhu) three
Talaaqs given at once were regarded equal to one?" He replied,
"Yes". It becomes obvious from here that three Talaaqs given at once
are regarded as one Talaaq.
OUR ANSWER:
There are a few answers to this objection:
1. This Hadith is "Mansookh" or abrogated. The reason for this is
that Hazrat Abdullah Ibn Abbas (radi Allahu anhu) narrated this
Hadith and he himself issued the verdict that three Talaaqs given at
once are valid and effective. A detailed explanation is written in
the first chapter of this book. When a narrator of a Hadith
practices against his narration it will mean that as far as the
knowledge of the narrator is concerned, the Hadith is Mansookh
(abrogated).
Hazrat Umar (radi Allahu anhu), in the presence of the Sahaba, made
this law that three Talaaqs given at once will be effective. This
law was accepted and practised by the Sahaba (radi Allahu anhum).
Hazrat Abdullah Ibn Abbas (radi Allahu anhuma) also did not object
to it. This informs us quite evidently that this Hadith was
abrogated or "Mu`awwal" (reinterpreted) in the knowledge of the
Sahaba. Could the Sahaba (radi Allahu anhum) ever reach consensus
against the Hadith?
2. In this Hadith, the case of that woman is discussed with whom her
husband did not have intercourse. If the husband told his wife with
whom he did not have intercourse yet, that "I give you Talaaq, I
give you Talaaq, I give you Talaaq", indeed, in this case, only the
first Talaaq will be counted and the remaining two Talaaqs are
ineffective.
Abu Sahba asked Abdullah Ibn Abbas (radi Allahu anhum): "Don`t you
know that during the time of the Holy Prophet (sallal laahu alaihi
wasallam) and in the time Abu Bakr (radi Allahu anhu) that when
people used to give three Talaaqs at once it was regarded as one
Talaaq?" He replied, "Yes, when they used to give to Ghair Madkhool
Beha (with whom intercourse did not take place)." (Abu Dawood,
Kitabut Talaaq, Chapter: Returning to wife after giving her three
Talaaqs)
It is crystal clear that the narration of "Muslim" also means the
same.
3. In the Prophetic period and in the period of Abu Bakr Siddique (radi
Allahu anhu), people used to divorce in the following way by
uttering "I give you Talaaq, Talaaq, Talaaq". They used to emphasize
the first Talaaq with the last two words of Talaaq.
In the Farooqi period, the peoples condition changed. They began
issuing three Talaaqs with the three words of Talaaqs, that is, not
emphasizing the last two words. Due to the change of condition, the
ruling also changed. (Reference: Nowvi Sharah Muslim, Kitabut Talaaq).
It is mentioned in the Holy Quran that eight categories of the
people deserve Zakaah. In the period of Hazrat Umar (radi Allahu
anhu), the Sahaba reached consensus that the "Mo Allefatul Quloob"
or the "Kuffar attracted towards Islam" be excluded from these eight
categories. In the earlier period of Islam, Muslims were few and
weak, therefore, the Kuffar were drawn towards Islam by giving them
Zakaah. Now, in the period of Hazrat Umar (radi Allahu anhu), the
Muslims were neither few in number nor weak, so the giving of Zakaah
to the Kuffar was stopped. In this instance, the law changed due to
the change of circumstances. For example, Zaid (a person) was poor
and could accept Zakaah, but once he became rich, he must pay Zakaah.
Today, people are totally unaware of Takeed (emphasis). They give
three Talaaqs with the intention of three Talaaqs. It is strange
that circumstances are something else and ruling is something else!
THIRD OBJECTION
Hazrat Abdullah Ibn Abbas (radi Allahu anhuma) narrates that Abd
Yazid Abu Rukanah (radi Allahu anhu) gave Talaaq to his wife. The
Holy Prophet (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam) told him, "Return to
your wife." He replied, "I have given three Talaaqs". The Holy
Prophet (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam) said, "I know, but go back to
your wife." He then recited the first verse of Surah Talaaq which
means: "O Prophet, when you people divorce your women, then divorce
them at the time of their prescribed periods." (Sunan Kubra, Vol. 7,
pg. 339; Abu Dawood, pg. 299; Durre Mansoor, Vol. 1, pg. 279)
If three Talaaqs given at once were valid, then the Rojoo` (going
back to the wife) was impossible, and there was need of Halalah. It
becomes known from here that one Talaaq was made valid and two were
rejected although Abu Rukanah said "I have given three Talaaqs".
OUR ANSWER:
It is a shame and dishonour on the objector that he has quoted only
half of the Hadith. "Baihqi" and "Abu Dawood" have given beautiful
answers to this objection, which the objector has not mentioned.
It is narrated in the same place in "Baihqi" and "Abu Dawood" that:
"Naafe Ibn Ajeer and Abdullah Bin Ali Bin Yazid Bin Rukana (radi
Allahu anhuma) narrated from his grandfather Rukana that Rukana gave
Talaaq Battah (emphasized Talaaq) to his wife. Therefore, the Holy
Prophet (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam) returned his wife to him.
This Hadith (regarding Rukanah) is more accurate than the other
Ahadith because the son or the family members are more acquainted
with the household (matters) than outsiders".
Here, the grandson says that his grandfather gave Talaaq Battah to
his grandmother, while the outsiders say that he gave three Talaaqs.
Surely, the narration of a family member is more accurate in family
matters than any body else!
We have mentioned in the first chapter that Rukanah told the Holy
Prophet (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam) that "I have made intention
of one Talaaq". The Holy Prophet (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam)
asked him to then take an oath by the Name of Allah, then only did
he allow Rukana to go back to his wife. Imam Nowvi (radi Allahu anhu)
said that the narration of three Talaaqs regarding Abu Rukanah is
weak and narrated by unknown people. Regarding the Talaaq of Abu
Rukanah, the narration we have presented is correct, that he gave
Talaaq Battah to his wife.
FOURTH OBJECTION
Hazrat Abdullah Ibn Umar (radi Allahu anhuma) gave three Talaaqs to
his wife while she was in the state of her menses. The Holy Prophet
(sallal laahu alaihi wasallam) regarded this as only one Talaaq and
ordered him to go back to his wife. If three Talaaqs given at once
were effective, than it was impossible for Hazrat Abdullah (radi
Allahu anhu) to return to his wife.
OUR ANSWER:
This argument is incorrect. Hazrat Abdullah Ibn Umar (radi Allahu
anhuma) only gave one Talaaq to his wife in her state of menses. The
Holy Prophet (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam) ordered him to make
Rojoo because the correct way of issuing Talaaq was to give the
Talaaq while the woman is in the state of Tohr, and not in the state
of Haiz (menses).
It is stated in Muslim Shareef: "Naafe narrates from Abdullah that
he gave one Talaaq to his wife while she was in her menses. The Holy
Prophet (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam) ordered him to go back to his
wife." (Muslim, Vol. 1, Baabu Tahrimit Talaaqil Ha`ize) Imam Nowvi (radi
Allahu anhu) states that "the correct narration of Ibn Umar is that
which is reported in Muslim, that he gave one Talaaq to his wife." (Nowi
Sharah Muslim, Chapter of three Talaaqs)
FIFTH OBJECTION
Imam Razi (radi Allahu anhu) states: "It is Waajib (compulsory) to
give Talaaqs separately, and this is the exact explanation of those
people who have said that giving three Talaaqs at once is Haraam." (Tafseer
Kabeer, under the verse no. 230, Surah Baqarah) It is obvious from
here that giving three Talaaqs at once is not Shar`i Talaaq.
OUR ANSWER:
It is necessary to give three Talaaqs separately. Nobody denies
this. But, the argument is that if someone, due to his foolishness,
gave three Talaaqs at once, will these Talaaqs be valid or not?
It is not stated anywhere in "Tafseer Kabeer" that these Talaaqs
would not be valid. What has been said in "Tafseer Kabeer" is that
to give three Talaaqs at once is Haraam. Something being illegal is
one thing and the application of Shar`i rulings upon it is an
another thing. It is Haraam to drink or eat while fasting in the
month of Ramadaan, but if anyone eats or drinks, his fast will be
null and void.
SIXTH OBJECTION
Imam Razi (radi Allahu anhu) states: "Many of the Ulama of Deen have
chosen this way that if someone gives two or three Talaaqs together,
then only one will be valid". (Tafseer Kabeer, Vol. 2, pg. 247). It
is determined from here that according to Ulama of Islam, three
Talaaqs given at once are equal to one Talaaq.
OUR ANSWER:
Here, the objector did not mention who those Ulama are. We will tell
you! Those Ulama are Ibne Taimiya and his followers. Ibn Taimiya and
his followers are regarded by the Ulama as misled and as misleaders.
Reference to this was made in the first chapter of this book.
Furthermore, the objector did not quote the full statement from "Tafseer
Kabeer". Hazrat Imam Razi (radi Allahu anhu) continues after that
statement which is quoted in the objection that, "the second saying
is the saying of Imam Abu Hanifah (radi Allahu anhu), although it is
Haraam to give three Talaaqs at once, but it will be valid." Imam
Razi (radi Allahu anhu) states a little further: "It is the Mazhab
of all Jurist Imams that if the wife is given three Talaaqs
together, she will not be Halaal for the husband". (Tafseer Kabeer,
Vol. 2, page 265).
SEVENTH OBJECTION
It is common sense that three Talaaqs given at once should be
regarded as one Talaaq, because performing anything at once, which
was ordered to be done separately, is counted as doing it once only.
For example, to take an oath (swearing) four times is compulsory in
"Li Aan" (mutual cursing by a couple in a Court of Law in a case of
adultery). If someone has taken four oaths with one word, it will be
counted as one and he has to swear three more times. The stoning of
the Jamaraat seven times separately is Waajib during Hajj. If
someone hits the Jamara one time with seven stones it will be
regarded as one hitting and he has to hit it six more times.
Similarly, if someone took a vow that he will send Salutations upon
the Holy Prophet (sallal laahu alaihi wasallam) thousand times and
he says that "I send Salutation upon the Prophet thousand times",
this will be regarded as only one Salutation. Similarly, if someone
gave three Talaaqs at once, it will be regarded as one Talaaq not
three Talaaqs.
OUR ANSWER:
In Li Aan and in Rami (hitting the stones), action is required, not
its effect. But in Talaaq, effect is required, not just action.
Therefore, their analogy is incorrect.
Every Qasam (swearing, oath) in Li Aan is equal to one witness. Four
witnesses are required in the case of adultery. In Li Aan four
actions of swearing is needed because Li Aan stands for four
witnesses. In the hitting of the Jamaraat seven actions are required
- hitting seven stones one time is one action. The Holy Prophet (sallal
laahu alaihi wasallam) performed seven actions in Rami. In order to
follow him, we need to hit seven times. In Durood Shareef, reward is
granted according to one`s effort. The vow of reading thousand times
Durood is in fact the vow of the same amount of effort. It is
obvious that saying one time "I send Salutation upon Rasool thousand
time" does not have the effort of reading a thousand times. Talaaq
is not an act which causes reward, so for it to be valid, different
rules are applied.
NOTE: If three Talaaqs given at once are equal to one Talaaq
and if the husband and the wife live separately, it is not very
harmful. But, if three Talaaqs given at once are valid and if the
husband and wife are living together without Halalah, then it means
that they will be committing adultery for the rest of their lives.
Therefore, safety and care must be implemented in this way - that
three Talaaqs be accepted as three Talaaqs and not as one. |